Whar are the Principal Damages in Children Living in Compound Families?

 

 UNIT 3- CAUSE AND EFFECT

 


Compound families is a couple with their own children, when they decide to live together, the children of everyone have to learn to live together and respect each other’s, but in this kind of relationship can surge a lot of problems with the fact of accepting others as brothers and try to have a good relationship with them, the before mentioned is according to the children, but on the other hand, it is the relationship, care of love to the sons of the other person as a couple. Moreover, the most part of this couple living in this kind of families, affirm that it is really difficult maintain the same care of affection to the sons of the other persons, because even it is difficult tray to have a good relationship with them.

          The principal damage in children living in compound families is the fact emotional changes, because they have to adapt their lives with the rhythm of other family as well. In addiction, they have to share their lives with others children, living in the same house, eating the same food, and share the same things. The emotional changes begins in the moment that they parents decide to start a new relationship, this fact can contribute to a feeling of loneliness and separation with their own father o mother depending of the person whom they are living. Sometimes they parents force to children to love to the new mother or father in the most part of the time, and that produces in children an frustration, because they spend a long time to take affection to the other person.


          Another damage in is produced to the lack of confidence in parents to children. Some of this problems are produced because parents believe more in their couples than in their own children. The most part of cases of violation is produced in the family in this kind of families, because mothers trust in letting their children in care of a strange person, and when their children tell them what have happened with their couple, they think that they say that because they hate to the mate of the mother, and the most part of these cases are never resolved. So this situation leads to the children to grow up feeling undefended and with low self-esteem.


          Conclusion, how these damages could be avoided? Firstly, parents have to maintain a good relationship with their children. Parents have to put their children firstly that their couples, because they can run away in sometime, but their children going to be their children all life, and the most important, parents have to listen them and believe them what they tell, because in that way the family is going to work well.